MARRIED AND UNMARRIED PEOPLE

*TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:*
*TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND/OR ARE PREPARING TO
GET MARRIED SOON*
1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*
Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own
thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you
can't get the best out of his/her strength.
2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*
No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What
matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are
passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't be
change. So Focus on the present and the future!
3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES*
Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has
gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True
love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage!
Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs.
Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!
4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*
Don't compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be
equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid
marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your
marriage dreams shall come true.
5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*
When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of
marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance,
Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence,
Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, betrayal,
Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your
marriage zone.
6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*
There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard
work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a
CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are
not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere
along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy
circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriage...
Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage.
7. *GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU
DESIRE*
He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in
order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a
woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray
for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she
can improve and vice versa.
8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as
situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment.
Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get
marry to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter
after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you
have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he
gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at
last.
9. *MARRIAGE IS PERMANENT CONTRACT*
Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes
a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think
of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose
to remain married! God hates divorce
10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit
into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don't
deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a
candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage,
You cannot love without giving and sacrificing. if you can keep all these it will help you.